The Sonia Bompastor who sits down in entrance of me is not the steely-eyed ice-cool coach you see on the sidelines on matchday, actually she is kind of the alternative. She’s chatty, heat and humorous – nearly two completely different individuals and that is the best way she likes it.
There’s Bompastor the soccer coach after which the opposite Bompastor, the one one who, till this week, we knew little or no about.
More often than not she’s succeeded in maintaining the 2 sides at arm’s size however this week in an interview in France forward of the publication of her new autobiography the 2 collided.
The Chelsea head coach admitted to a secret she had stored for 13 years: she was in a relationship together with her former team-mate and now teaching assistant Camille Abily. They share 4 youngsters collectively.
She felt she had no alternative however to cover and compartmentalise her life however concedes it was an unimaginable burden to hold.
“I grew up with a model where a couple were a man and a woman and it was too difficult for me to just say I’m in a couple with a woman,” she completely tells Sky Sports activities.
“So sure, generally it was troublesome. It is nonetheless troublesome. While you begin to lie it is troublesome to say the reality and when it is lengthy, and the longer it’s, it’s tougher to say.
“I just wrote that book to give something to my kids. When you write a book, of course, you don’t want to hide anything. That’s the way for you to just put your life in the book and talk about it and I think my family is probably what I’m most proud of.
“I wish to preserve my personal life actually quiet however with this e-book every thing goes in and, yeah, that is not one of the best ways to maintain a secret. It was troublesome as a result of even at this time that is one thing I am not likely snug to speak about and possibly I am realising I will also be a mannequin for some individuals.
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“That’s not something I’m used to and not comfortable with but, yes, if I can help people to realise we are living in 2025 and every difference is important. I don’t want people to judge because they are different about sexuality, but also the colour of the skin, religion and everything.
“When you’re glad, simply preserve your self glad. And that is a very powerful factor.”
The process of opening up a part of her life to be publicly examined has been challenging but the reaction has been a really positive one. “It is once you realise individuals care about your happiness and that is a very powerful factor,” she continued.
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Maybe if she was a participant coming by way of the system now life may need been completely different, she actually hopes so. “I think we’ve made some good progress in the world of football but also in society.
“I really feel extra snug even myself now to specific that. It wasn’t the case 15 years in the past. So I really feel individuals now, particularly in Chelsea, we really feel help. I already talked about how a lot range we have now within the workforce and I believe that is actually essential for individuals to really feel themselves.”
As we talk she gives a rare glimpse into family life and even jokes about having four kids under 10 helping in her role as a high-powered football coach. “Actually busy, organised, and it is advisable anticipate loads,” she laughs. “Having my personal life and this high-responsibility job, I believe I simply discover the correct stability. And once you simply return to your regular life, it is good to have your youngsters as a result of you may disconnect.”
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Downtime is one thing Bompastor values. Through the newest worldwide break she spent three days with family and friends again in France, having fun with procuring, eating out and binging the most recent survival present ‘Koh-Lanta’.
Now the change has been flicked again to Bompastor the supervisor.
That is the second within the interview the Chelsea boss actually comes alive. The steely, composed focus is again as we speak about coming into the decisive few months of the season and profitable trophies – what does a superb season appear like for you, I ask? With out hesitation Bompastor replies: “Winning titles. That’s always the most important.”
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All 4 competitions, I observe up: “Yeah, all of them,” – once more no pause.
“It’s always difficult to win every trophy, even one trophy, it’s really difficult but when you start the season you realise this team is built to compete and to win titles.
“So, yeah, the satisfaction shall be provided that we win the 4 titles. We’re going to combat actually laborious to ensure we’re in that place. I believe we have now the correct mentality to ensure we simply strategy each sport in a great way to have the ability to achieve success.”
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Subsequent up for Chelsea is a return to WSL motion towards Brighton. A stoppage-time winner from Lauren James noticed them come from a purpose all the way down to beat Everton final trip and keep their seven-point lead on the high.
Chelsea are the one unbeaten workforce within the league and have dropped simply two factors this season, drawing 1-1 at Leicester. Additionally they added two stars to their already glittering assortment in January with Keira Walsh and one of many world’s greatest defenders Naomi Girma, for a world document payment. Girma ought to be within the squad for the journey to Brighton.
Chelsea then face a staggering 4 conferences throughout three separate competitions towards rivals Manchester Metropolis, all within the house of 12 days. First comes the League Cup remaining, adopted by the primary leg of their Champions League last-eight tie, earlier than a WSL face-off for good measure. Oh and a European second leg. It is a season-defining interval.
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The coveted Champions League is the one which has, thus far, eluded Chelsea and the trophy the membership are determined to get their fingers on. “This is where you can win titles and this is what everyone is here for.
“We’re actually pleased with being busy. For the time being we did not win something however we’re in a very good place and assured. While you get up within the morning, you’re simply so glad to return to work.
“Even if it’s difficult for me to say work, because for us it’s a passion. And we can’t wait to play every game, one after another, and being able to be successful. Chelsea has been an example for everyone but I think bringing the Champions League to England would be a big achievement. This country deserves to have the Champions League and I’m fingers crossed for us to be able to do that.
“However even when Man Metropolis or Arsenal get this title, will probably be actually good for the nation.”
On the evidence of her first few months in charge it’s hard to bet against Bompastor.
Chelsea have been near-perfect and Bompastor is a self-confessed perfectionist. Expect Chelsea to raise their level to another gear, now that it really matters.
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